{"id":13321,"date":"2014-07-07T05:00:05","date_gmt":"2014-07-07T11:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tested-neuron.flywheelsites.com\/?p=13321"},"modified":"2015-02-17T13:16:23","modified_gmt":"2015-02-17T20:16:23","slug":"networking-is-not-a-sport","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/networking-is-not-a-sport\/","title":{"rendered":"Networking Is Not a Sport"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all know how important networking is. There&#8217;s the fabled &#8220;It&#8217;s Not What You Know, It&#8217;s Who You Know?&#8221; question. I talk (a lot) about &#8220;making rain,&#8221; and yet, there is a dark side to networking.<\/p>\n<p>Let me explain.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I received the following question (which is a variation of a question I receive regularly when I talk about networking):<\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 2.5em;\"><i>&#8220;[&#8230;] Of course, networking and building new relationships is incredibly important. Grabbing coffee and chatting for a half-hour can be a great start to a new relationship. My issues is that I&#8217;m hesitant to ask people (especially those more senior) to meet when there isn&#8217;t a clear objective to the meeting aside from simply networking. I don&#8217;t want to waste the other person&#8217;s time, and what are we even supposed to talk about?&#8221;<\/i><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Networking for the sake of networking is superfluous, usually doesn&#8217;t lead to anything, and is a waste of time and energy. The question I would ask myself is: Why do I want to be connected to this person?\u00a0<span style=\"color: #222222;\">Be specific about what you need. The more specific you are, the easier it usually is for people to help. A generic &#8220;I need help with business development&#8221; is nice but doesn&#8217;t tell me what I can do for you specifically. Instead, if you can name me three people who would help your business, maybe I can get you at least one step closer to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Networking is not a sport, and there are no trophies for creating the most connections. It&#8217;s about creating genuine relationships.\u00a0When you approach it from this angle the question above becomes obsolete, as you have tons of stuff to talk about.<span style=\"color: #222222;\">\u00a0And never\u00a0forget: Have some serious fun!<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Networking is about creating genuine relationships.<span id=\"tweetquote\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https:\/\/wary-sunlight.flywheelsites.com\/opinion\/networking-is-not-a-sport\/&amp;via=unreasonable&amp;text=&quot;Networking is about creating genuine relationships.&quot;\"><i class=\"fa fa-twitter\"><\/i> \u00a0Tweet This Quote<\/a><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are no trophies for creating the most connections while networking. 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