{"id":35467,"date":"2017-04-06T05:00:37","date_gmt":"2017-04-06T11:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tested-neuron.flywheelsites.com\/?p=35467"},"modified":"2017-04-05T23:47:03","modified_gmt":"2017-04-06T05:47:03","slug":"what-deal-failure-fetish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/what-deal-failure-fetish\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s the Deal With the Failure Fetish?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"35469\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/what-deal-failure-fetish\/drop_t-25\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25.png\" data-orig-size=\"911,915\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Drop_T-25\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25.png\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25.png\" class=\" wp-image-35469 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wary-sunlight.flywheelsites.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"82\" height=\"83\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25.png 911w, https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25-768x771.png 768w, https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25-810x814.png 810w, https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25-400x402.png 400w, https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25-200x200.png 200w, https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Drop_T-25-300x300.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 82px) 100vw, 82px\" \/>here is something curious going on in startup land: From learning to accept failure as part of the creative process we seem to have gone into overdrive and fetishize failure as something which is worthy of pursuit in and of itself. From <a href=\"http:\/\/thefailcon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">FailCon<\/a> to <a href=\"http:\/\/fuckupnights.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Fuckup Night<\/a>\u00a0\u2014 talking about failure seems to have become not only cool but also good business.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing with failure:<br \/>\n<strong>1. It sucks.<\/strong> I have yet to find someone who enjoys failing (and prefers it over succeeding).<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. You don\u2019t learn all that much;<\/strong> and certainly not from the failures of others. There are a dozen ways you can solve a particular problem and a million ways how you can fail at doing so. Learning which one method didn\u2019t work eliminates one out of 1,000,000 options. I\u2019d rather take the shortcut and learn what worked.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. It is deeply personal.<\/strong> Failure (as is success) is deeply tied into your personal circumstances, the environment you were in, and a gazillion other factors. It is incredibly hard to generalize.<\/p>\n<p>Rather than fixating on (particularly) the failure of others, I suggest you focus on learning what worked. Spend your energy on deeply understanding the underlying factors, the first principles which led to success and figure out how you can leverage these lessons. And take failure for what it is: a necessary evil. Don\u2019t be afraid of failure but do your utmost to minimize the impact of your failure (nothing good comes out of you driving your startup against the wall), and keep on doing the things that work!<\/p>\n<p>Rather than \u201cfail fast, fail forward\u201d how about \u201cfigure out what works and keep doing that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em><span style=\"color: #999999;\">This post originally appeared on Pascal&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/read.theheretic.org\/the-failure-fetish-c03f83cc5e9b\" target=\"_blank\">Medium<\/a>.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nothing good comes out of driving your startup against the wall, so how did we go from embracing failure to fetishizing it?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":35468,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[476,1527,1511,1516],"tags":[1411,32,690,383,351],"class_list":["post-35467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","category-debunking","category-failure","category-starting-up","tag-debunking","tag-failure","tag-finette","tag-starting","tag-transparency"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>What&#039;s the Deal With the Failure Fetish? 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