{"id":8526,"date":"2016-06-07T05:00:50","date_gmt":"2016-06-07T11:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tested-neuron.flywheelsites.com\/?p=8526"},"modified":"2016-06-06T18:22:38","modified_gmt":"2016-06-07T00:22:38","slug":"is-your-startup-your-baby-why-you-may-want-to-reconsider","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unreasonablegroup.com\/articles\/is-your-startup-your-baby-why-you-may-want-to-reconsider\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Startup Your &#8220;Baby&#8221;? Why You May Want to Reconsider"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Starting a company is a major hazard<\/strong> to marriages, friendships, and pretty much every other relationship in your life. As the founder or CEO, the buck stops with you, which means there\u2019s always more you could be doing. I call this the \u201cone more\u201d syndrome, as in there\u2019s always one more email to write, one more prospect to call, and one more potential investor to ping. There\u2019s no way to take the hard work out of starting a company. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"left\"><p>Once you let go of your perfectionism, you can stop wasting time on guilt and worrying.<span id=\"tweetquote\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=http:\/\/bit.ly\/1UaRgUG&amp;via=unreasonable&amp;text=&quot;Once you let go of your perfectionism, you can stop wasting time on guilt and worrying&quot; @chrisyeh\"><i class=\"fa fa-twitter\"><\/i> Tweet This Quote<\/a><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I\u2019m no stranger to the busy life. A couple of years ago, I went through a period where I was working a full-time job, continuing to invest in startups, and writing a book\u2014all at the same time. However, no success can compensate for the loss of key relationships, especially those with young children. After 15 years as an entrepreneur, I\u2019ve developed these three specific principles and techniques to keep my corporate babies from consuming the rest of my life.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Accept that you\u2019ll never get everything done.<\/h2>\n<p>When I was running my first company, my instinctive response to every problem or obstacle was to work harder. I was confident that given enough effort, I could solve any issue. But eventually, I realized that I just didn\u2019t have enough hours in the day to solve all of them.<\/p>\n<p>Once you let go of your perfectionism, you can stop wasting time on guilt and worrying, and instead focus on the practical challenge of figuring out which three of your million to-dos are actually the most important.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Put time in your calendar for your life.<\/h2>\n<p>I am amazed by the power calendars exert over our lives. If a meeting is scheduled, by gosh, we drop everything and make sure we show up for that meeting. Frankly, it\u2019s a bit irrational.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"right\"><p>When you\u2019re taking time away from work, be present\u2014you\u2019ll be much more productive when you do sit down to work.<span id=\"tweetquote\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=http:\/\/bit.ly\/1UaRgUG&amp;via=unreasonable&amp;text=&quot;When you take time away from work, be present\u2014you\u2019ll be more productive when you work&quot; @chrisyeh\"><i class=\"fa fa-twitter\"><\/i> Tweet This Quote<\/a><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>One of the main mistakes I see entrepreneurs make is not blocking out time in their calendar for their life. Founders often treat their personal lives as low-priority. \u201cI\u2019ll get to that,\u201d they think. The problem is, the supply of high-priority items always outstrips available time. If you want to spend time with family, put it on your calendar. If you want to work out, put it on your calendar. If you don\u2019t make time for your life, you won\u2019t have one. <\/p>\n<h2>3. When you\u2019re taking time away from work, be present.<\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s say you\u2019ve accepted imperfection and blocked out time with friends. You could still sabotage your own life. Let me give you an example:<\/p>\n<p>When I go to a party to hang out with friends, I know there will be times when there\u2019s a lull or I\u2019m not engaged in a conversation. At those times, I will be sorely tempted to pull out my phone and check emails. I try hard to resist those urges. The corollary of the \u201cone more\u201d principle is the \u201cjust one\u201d principle. Once you go down the slippery slope of checking your email, you\u2019ll decide to write \u201cjust one\u201d response. Two hours later, you\u2019ll be huddled in a locked bathroom, frantically typing up messages to deal with the inevitable crises that arose while you were out. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"left\"><p>As a founder or CEO, if you don\u2019t make time for your life, you won\u2019t have one.<span id=\"tweetquote\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=http:\/\/bit.ly\/1UaRgUG&amp;via=unreasonable&amp;text=&quot;As a founder or CEO, if you don\u2019t make time for your life, you won\u2019t have one&quot; @chrisyeh\"><i class=\"fa fa-twitter\"><\/i> Tweet This Quote<\/a><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Guess what? That\u2019s not the most effective time or place to address issues.<\/p>\n<p>Workaholism is a fundamentally selfish disease. You work because working makes you feel good (or at least less guilty).  The kind of work you do from the locked bathroom at a holiday party isn\u2019t efficient and doesn\u2019t help your company\u2014it just lets you feel better about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you\u2019re with friends, family, or most of all, your children, when you\u2019re taking time away from work, be present.  You\u2019ll be that much more productive when you actually do sit down to work.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"center\"><p>Workaholism is a fundamentally selfish disease\u2014no success can compensate for the loss of key relationships.<span id=\"tweetquote\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=http:\/\/bit.ly\/1UaRgUG&amp;via=unreasonable&amp;text=&quot;Workaholism is a selfish disease\u2014no success compensates for loss of key relationships&quot; @chrisyeh\"><i class=\"fa fa-twitter\"><\/i> Tweet This Quote<\/a><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It\u2019s time to accept imperfection and dedicate more calendar time to spend with loved ones. No matter how much you\u2019re tempted, keep the phone in your pocket and make sure you\u2019re actually present. <\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>A version of this post originally appeared on UNREASONABLE.is in December 2013. 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